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| Age 11 |
"It's my birthday" was whispered to my classmates on my 7th birthday in hopes of making a new friend on the first day of 1st grade. I think it worked-right Meg, Jess and Linds?!
"Um, because it's my birthday"-rolling my eyes while explaining to my behind-the-wheel instructor why I am wearing a big, flashing button on my first day of behind-the-wheel on my 16th birthday. I was on the verge of independence and couldn't be bothered with stupid questions, DUH!
"IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!!!" I shouted out the window of friend's car while driving through campus on my 21st birthday. A few drinks in me and I thought I was queen of the world.
Here I am now, on the cusp of 30, thinking of all the things I dreamed I would be doing or have done when I reached that milestone. I want to emphasize that I see 30 as milestone not a "death sentence". I don't see 30 as an age to dread but more of a jumping off point. God willing, by the time I'm 30 I will have only lived a third of my life. Yes, that's right, I plan to live to the ripe old age of 90. I have high aspirations of being that sweet but spunky old lady who always has spearmint gum in her purse, smells of vanilla and lavender, writes love notes to all her friends and family and still isn't afraid to give the finger when someone cuts her off on the road :)
Back to the present. In my reflection of the things I have and have not done, I started to formulate a list of things I think I should do before I turn the beloved 30. I don't intend this to be a bucket list but more of things I should know how to do or have experienced. In making my list, I felt that coming up with 30 things to do/experience would be fitting. Thirty things to by 30 and only 3 years to do them in. I tried to come up with a variety of topics, some will (hopefully) be easy, others I know will require a lot of work.
One of the items on my list just so happened to be "write a blog", and that's how we got here! My jumping off point! Now that I crossed that off, I only have 29 to go! I am encouraging all my family and friends that if you have any expertise in these items or want to help me fulfill one/all, please do! Here is the master list in no particular order:
1) Ride a motorcycle
2) Learn to sew
3) Run a marathon
4) Travel to Europe
5) Finish the wedding scrapbook (married almost a year and only have half a dozen pages done!)
6) Actually write my journal (I haven't touched the thing in almost 9 months!)
7) Roast a turkey
8) Have my career in focus/finish my education
9) Jump out of a plane
10) Learn to snowboard
11) Seriously try to eat vegetarian/gluten free (I don't think I could give up dairy to be vegan- I live in the state where cheese is god-like)
12) Water ski
13) Learn to build a roaring fire
14) Join a book club
15) Do 30 push ups from my toes (this is my least favorite exercise!)
16) Refurbish a piece of furniture
17) Be in the best shape of my life (since I don't see healthy in terms of numbers on a scale)(love that I am in better shape now than I was in high school)
18) Learn to can (preserve)
19) Make a pie from scratch
20) Start a garden
21) Take a pro-fitness training
22) Swim (I know how, but it is the one area of the gym I avoid)
23) Find a fish/seafood I tolerate eating
25) Learn to make my dad's omelets
26) Volunteer regularly
27) Join a group to fund raise for a cause
28) Put 3000 miles on my bike
29) Host a party (here is where my friends and family have to help-I need a reason! Baby shower or bachelorette party anyone?!)
30) Cross country ski
Here's hoping now that I have made this public, I will actually follow through! Stay tuned as I make my way through the list!
